SPWC

(Update)

Never mind !

Awwwwwwwwwwwwww Isela!!!! *MAJOR huggle* I'm so sorry, it happens. This life would sure be a lot easier if people never fell out of love. Give it time, you'll both get through it and move on with life. We stay strong in it, ya hear?



We are the army navy, marines and air force all in one we are so strong. This whole community is. You hear that everyone? We are STRONG! When this happens, we get a whopper, realize it's part of life and deal with it. WE DON'T GET DRUNK, END UP NAKED IN BED WITH ANOTHER PERSON AND RELOCATE THE NEIGHBORS CAT BECAUSE AT THE TIME IT WAS HYSTERICAL.

Hehehe, thanks Meri.
It just sucks because I really hate being alone....
It just hurts knowing I don't have a special someone anymore. Someone who can hold me and reassure me. the crew definetly does, but I guess I'm too greedy.

-hugs- Yea, I guess. thanks for the advice, Meri.

You're welcome. <3 And know that if you ever need to rant/talk I'm one PM click away. And I have Whoppers.

I'm sorry Isela. That sucks. BUT, I think you did the smart thing by ending it. If those feelings weren't as strong as they were, theres no point and stringing along a dead thing. It would've been worse if you had let it keep going.

It'll be ok. You just need time, thats all. Everythings still fresh wounds.

*Big hug*
If you need to talk to me, I'm a PM away. Or on here, I'm pretty much always on here

Hah, thats dandy. But, I'm really craving something more than whoppers at this point. dun dun duuuuuuun

Prairie dogs??

I'm so sorry Isela...but it is better , like everyone said, that you did it now instead of trying to hold on to something that wasn't there anymore. Always remember the saying "time heals"..some things may take longer than others but somehow we do get through them.
I'm a good listener so you can PM me if you need to chat.

xx

So sorry Isela. I have to put my to sences in, If you felt it was going nowhere then it was best to get out while you did. Me and my exgirlfriend new that we were both unhappy but we didn't want to be alone so we mad each others lives misrable for a year before we finally ended it, and it was the best thing that ever happened to me. Yes i missed certain things like someone to be by myside all the time but in time that will fade and you will move on. And you said you feel bad that you broke her heart that is understandable but you had to do what is right for you. You can not always think of everyone elses feelings. And if you ever need to rant and rave just a PM away too and i will console and rant and rave back even if i have nothing to b*tch about. I'll find something.

I'm so sorry! That is definitely one of the hardest things that we, as human beings, have to endure. It will get easier, but probably not for awhile. But you really just have to do what is best for you. You can't spend your life miserable to make everyone else happy. Trust me, it doesn't work... But as everyone else has said, I'm here if you need anyone to talk to!

*hugs*

I'm sorry to hear that. :-/ It does sound like you did the right thing, though. It will get better...just give yourself some time.

Sorry to hear, but I agree it's the right thing. *hugs*

Awh, I love you guys. I love my crew. Thank you all for your input. I believe that time will heal these wounds, and I must go on the search again. so, lets see..what am i searching for -listens to the 'Puppies for advice-

LOL Make a list... Or better yet, make up applications

Ahahahahah, Naw, most girls usually see me as the buddy type and not the dating type when I get all nerdy

Well... Then they don't deserve you if they think that! So "grrrr" to them lol

Is Mellow Yellow starting to feel more mellow again?

I sure hope so