Can anyone help?
Posted: 03 Dec 2013 14:40
So today my ex was visibly upset or pissed off or something and so I wanted to ask him why. We remained after friends so he'll normally open up to me more than anyone else. Today he just shot me down and told me to leave him alone. He has a short fuse but that's not like him at all. He's not certain that I'm trying to split him and his girlfriend up but she makes him happy so why would I?
He's confided in me about stuff that no one else knows and he would be devastated if he found out people knew. This morning he at least talked to me. I just... I just don't know. He's not him. He's turned into a complete and total jerk who doesn't really care about anyone else anymore. That's not him, he was sweet and considerate but now... now he's different.
I'm not saying I'm completely innocent in this situation though. The day he asked me for advice I told him that I still liked him. He also may have found that I've been talking to his cousin. However I am NOT trying to split him and his girlfriend up like he apparently thinks I am. He's happy (at least I think he is), why would I stop him from being happy?
I'm so confused right now. My friends think I'm being ridiculous and his cousin doesn't know what to tell me. Right now he's just making me want to tear all my hair out. Has anyone been in this place before? Any advice?
He's confided in me about stuff that no one else knows and he would be devastated if he found out people knew. This morning he at least talked to me. I just... I just don't know. He's not him. He's turned into a complete and total jerk who doesn't really care about anyone else anymore. That's not him, he was sweet and considerate but now... now he's different.
I'm not saying I'm completely innocent in this situation though. The day he asked me for advice I told him that I still liked him. He also may have found that I've been talking to his cousin. However I am NOT trying to split him and his girlfriend up like he apparently thinks I am. He's happy (at least I think he is), why would I stop him from being happy?
I'm so confused right now. My friends think I'm being ridiculous and his cousin doesn't know what to tell me. Right now he's just making me want to tear all my hair out. Has anyone been in this place before? Any advice?